Rebbie's dating site adventure...the first night.

Ok, so the curiosity got the better of me, and I signed up to a dating site... This post is pretty much going to be a running commentary of my thoughts while signing up... :)

The personality of OkCupid is amazing... The username Rebbie was taken... but look at their suggestions!

I almost went with 'Rebbie-o-matic' the sex machine, but... Ok, I totally regret with going for Rebbieinabox now. Rebbieasaurus would of been a good one, but I thought it was a little too scene kid...

But moving on to some of my details... I forget quite often I was born under the unfortunately named star sign... 

I decided to leave the second half of that question blank....

You have to be pretty kinky to answer with 'not possible' right? I couldn't imagine someone just sitting there like, yup, Noone can out-kink me! haha. You must have a filthy mind...

But to me, these questions are just getting better.....

'Depends on which race...' I can just imagine someone leant back in their computer chair, going through all the different types of race, checklisting in their head... I'm not sure if you guys are finding this as funny as I am...
So I thought it was time to check out some of the matches OkCupid found for me...
Putting my orientation as Bi-sexual, it came up with a couple of girls, and I found this little gem on a local girls profile...

She could of said ANYTHING else in the world, literally ANYTHING. is it just me, or is that the kind of thing people should be putting on their profiles... I suppose it is a dating site... you should get to know these things about a person...

Anyway, after 3 hours of trying to fix my profile etc. I'm tired... and seen as it's nearly 4am. I suppose I should get to sleep. But I want to hear your stories/experiences of dating websites, or even just share your opinion.

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And we shall see in the morning, what lies in store for me online...

Memory lane can be quite a funny place.

Who remembers late last year/early this year when I made profile up on dating and 'fuck buddy' sites to do a whole load of research into them and into dating and sex lives themselves.

I received an email earlier this week asking if I still used LocalSlags.com ... I'd never even heard that site before but I knew instantly where he'd got this from.

A lot of sites out there that are there solely for people who sign up and find a 'intimate friend' all share details with each other and share the profiles on their website. So if you sign up to one, you're signed up to them all. I've had enquiries asking why I'm on sexyGILF when I'm on 20 years of age, and some site to do with cougars....

Why don't I take these profiles down? Because I can't. The admins on the site always figured out that I was on there purely to play about and do research for my blog and always cut off my account. Yet, they kept my profile details on all the sites. This is to make men believe that there are plenty of girls out there on this website looking for a quick shag, long term fool-around-er. So they sign up to the site and pay the monthly fee. Now, they do in the small print say that they share their information with other site, but who actually reads the small print on a website? :P

What a lot of people don't realise is that the same profiles are on these weird and not so wonderful sites, so if they sign up to more than one of them, they're paying for the same thing, and that they don't realise is when they sign up to a new site, paying their monthly fee, they actually already have a profile on there...
Yet some people are lucky enough to find what they are looking for, and are happy. However most people unfortunately, get left with nothing and fair few pennies emptied out of their pocket.

As for me, I am doomed to be on the internet forever, a cougar, GILF and local slag. Wonderful!

Here is a photo of how pleased I am over this.... =P

Selling yourself online.

I've been exploring the morality around selling yourself. It's all well known that most people condemn selling yourself as morally wrong, and de-grading.
However, it can be seen as a fetish, not a morally right one in the eyes of some, but what is the motive behind the people who are selling themselves in this way?

It's no lie that a lot of young people are struggling financially today, and we've found that quite a few people are selling themselves in this way online, sending photos and videos for a few quid a bunch, in order to pay their rent, buy their food, etc.

Is it really that wrong for two consensual people to do business this way? I don't believe it is, if consent is given between both sides, then were is the harm in this person selling a few pictures online, and the other person accepting and paying? The hurt and the upset comes if those people have partners and haven't agreed to their partner either selling or paying for these explicit materials.

But should we really judge these ways in which people make their lives a little more financially stable. If a few explicit pictures can save a family from being kicked out on the street, or keep people fed for a few more days. Then doesn't the good outweigh the fact of morally?

What do you guys think? Would you buy a few pictures to help someone financially? Or would you sell a few photos online to earn a few extra pennies?

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Fetish's in society?

Fetish's are often the victim of very strong opinions, either positive or negative.
Do you have a fetish?

Certain things/fetish's can make people feel uncomfortable, especially if displayed in public. However some people discard some of these fetish's as 'Disgusting' and 'Shouldn't be practised' But how should we look at fetish's?

I have been going undercover again finding out what people's fetish's are, they've ranged from something small and everyday like having their neck tickled, to more extreme such as wanting photographic evidence of me making 'ass stains' in my underwear.

Everyone has a limit of what is 'Too far' for them, but should these fetish's really be named as 'Disgusting,' 'Unnatural' Or 'Shouldn't be practised.' Fair enough some fetish's can very adventurous, and very out of the ordinary. But these are people's preferences, and are the most part done in the privacy of their own homes.

However, the outrage mainly comes from where it is plastered over the internet. Sometimes poorly placed adverts are found on the internet, where it can crop up to users who aren't interested in that particular fetish. Though mainly, online it's in it's own private websites where people who are interested in it can come together, a bit like dating websites!

But just because we're not into some of the more adventurous things? Should they really be condemned like they are? I'm not a fan of anything that involves my ass, or what comes out of it, but if people are into that kind of thing it's their business. When talking about it, i'll politely say that I'm not into that sort of thing.... I think it would be great if more people did the same.

I think bad stigma that people attach to fetish's, it's a little unfair, not only are you criticising a part of someone's life, you also pressure other people into thinking they're wrong in enjoying that particular thing.
I'm not a big fetish girl, I'm not amazingly adventurous when it comes to this type of thing, but should we really judge people?

What really is wrong with someone practising a fetish in the privacy of their own home? Or signing up to a related website?
It's very much like criticising vegetarian's for not eating meat because it's 'Unnatural' as we were originally meat eaters as well....

However some fetish's are banned/illegal.... Which fetish's do you think are wrongly condemned?
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