It's been a while since I've posted one of my sex related blogs, and I've had a few messages requesting for their return... (you massive perverts! haha.)
So my topic today is all about webcam performers, and whether we should kick up a fuss over finding our partners viewing their material...
As with everything at the end of the day, it all comes down to a matter of opinion, and the truth is, a lot of women think that webcam performers are 'sluts' and 'cheap'. Where with guys, it's a middle split, a lot more males feel slightly more positive towards the idea of webcam performers, especially female and couple performers! ....This is probably because they're the main audience for these type of shows! Though society today is becoming a lot more open when it comes to sex and sexuality. So... Should we accept webcam performers, or not?
I've had this conversation with many people, both males and females and I get asked whether it's acceptable to watch webcam performers/go to strip clubs etc, when they're in a relationship and their partner's at home.
A lot of people make the mistake of putting webcam performers in the same league as other sex workers, such as escorts and prostitutes, as in thinking they're just as morally wrong. This is not the case in the slightest, obviously for the main reason of, there's an actual physical experience between someone and a escort/prostitute, and it's actually classed as cheating! =p.
If you caught your partner watching a webcam performer, would you be annoyed? Is there a reason to be annoyed?
I've been asked this question a lot, at the end of the day, it does come down to whether it upsets you or not. Personally, I may be a little wounded by it, but at the end of the day, it's just a fantasy. If your partner is sat at the computer wanking over some randomer on the internet, who he doesn't have a relationship with outside of that, are they really doing anything wrong? It's just like them masturbating over a celebrity....
Obviously except for the fact our partner's are paying for them....
A lot of the girls do it for an income, that isn't to say they don't enjoy it... who doesn't enjoy masturbating! But that girl isn't going to be in love with my partner, that girl isn't going to take my partner away from me. All she's going to get from my partner, is a few quid over a wank on webcam... None of us like to think of our partners getting off sexually over other people. But at the end of the day, they're sat at home jacking off, not cheating on you and sticking it in a prostitute...
In my opinion, what's wrong with a little fantasy? But everyone is different, some people would be upset by it, and one thing about being in a relationship is that you have to know each others limits, what lines you can cross etc, like you do with things like banter. It's the same with things like this, if you know your partner would be upset if they found you in that situation, then you should probably steer away from that situation out of respect for your partner.
If you're unsure about the situation, and are curious to your partners opinion, you can bring up the topic without giving the game away. Talk about a stag/hen party-->>Strippers -->> other forms of sexual entertainment, or if you're online, mention a pop up about webcamming, (there's bloody enough of them!).
Or, to avoid all the hassle, hide in your cave and fap to your hearts content... =P
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Showing posts with label explicit materials. Show all posts
Showing posts with label explicit materials. Show all posts
Monday, 22 July 2013
Wednesday, 19 September 2012
Memory lane can be quite a funny place.
Who remembers late last year/early this year when I made profile up on dating and 'fuck buddy' sites to do a whole load of research into them and into dating and sex lives themselves.
I received an email earlier this week asking if I still used LocalSlags.com ... I'd never even heard that site before but I knew instantly where he'd got this from.
A lot of sites out there that are there solely for people who sign up and find a 'intimate friend' all share details with each other and share the profiles on their website. So if you sign up to one, you're signed up to them all. I've had enquiries asking why I'm on sexyGILF when I'm on 20 years of age, and some site to do with cougars....
Why don't I take these profiles down? Because I can't. The admins on the site always figured out that I was on there purely to play about and do research for my blog and always cut off my account. Yet, they kept my profile details on all the sites. This is to make men believe that there are plenty of girls out there on this website looking for a quick shag, long term fool-around-er. So they sign up to the site and pay the monthly fee. Now, they do in the small print say that they share their information with other site, but who actually reads the small print on a website? :P
What a lot of people don't realise is that the same profiles are on these weird and not so wonderful sites, so if they sign up to more than one of them, they're paying for the same thing, and that they don't realise is when they sign up to a new site, paying their monthly fee, they actually already have a profile on there...
Yet some people are lucky enough to find what they are looking for, and are happy. However most people unfortunately, get left with nothing and fair few pennies emptied out of their pocket.
As for me, I am doomed to be on the internet forever, a cougar, GILF and local slag. Wonderful!
A lot of sites out there that are there solely for people who sign up and find a 'intimate friend' all share details with each other and share the profiles on their website. So if you sign up to one, you're signed up to them all. I've had enquiries asking why I'm on sexyGILF when I'm on 20 years of age, and some site to do with cougars....
Why don't I take these profiles down? Because I can't. The admins on the site always figured out that I was on there purely to play about and do research for my blog and always cut off my account. Yet, they kept my profile details on all the sites. This is to make men believe that there are plenty of girls out there on this website looking for a quick shag, long term fool-around-er. So they sign up to the site and pay the monthly fee. Now, they do in the small print say that they share their information with other site, but who actually reads the small print on a website? :P
What a lot of people don't realise is that the same profiles are on these weird and not so wonderful sites, so if they sign up to more than one of them, they're paying for the same thing, and that they don't realise is when they sign up to a new site, paying their monthly fee, they actually already have a profile on there...
Yet some people are lucky enough to find what they are looking for, and are happy. However most people unfortunately, get left with nothing and fair few pennies emptied out of their pocket.
As for me, I am doomed to be on the internet forever, a cougar, GILF and local slag. Wonderful!
Here is a photo of how pleased I am over this.... =P
Saturday, 28 January 2012
Safe, explicit materials.
After my blog about selling explicit materials online, I received a number of emails asking for advice on how to take 'safe, explicit materials' either for selling or just sending to boyfriends/girlfriends.
If you do decide to take explicit materials of yourselves, for any purpose this is my advice to you!
1) Keep your face out of the photos
Especially if you're planning on sending photos/videos etc to a boyfriend/girlfriend that you wouldn't want anyone to see. Too many times people send out photo's to other people of their ex partners as some kind of petty revenge, which leads to extreme embarrassment and hurt to the ex-partner. At least if you keep your face out of the material, you can deny it being you!
2) Have an unrecognisable background to the material!
This is something a lot of people don't consider, if you don't want people to recognise you, it doesn't matter if you cut your face out of the photo, if your background is recognisable (Eg; if your bedroom walls, bed pillows etc are obvious in the photos) again it will link to you, and again you wouldn't be able to deny it being you in the material!
3) Only take materials that you're comfortable doing
I know people who take materials for money, and one thing they always get are people who are wanting things they're not comfortable with doing. If this is the case then just don't do it. Forget about the pressure, because if you don't want to do it, you're only going to feel shit about yourself for doing it after. And that isn't worth it!
This is also if you're just sending materials for fun, make sure it stays fun!
4) Send photos to people you know you can trust!
If you are sending photos out for fun, make sure you know you can trust the person. (OK, fair enough our judgement in this isn't always right) But if you're sending materials to someone who has a history of sending peoples photos etc to other people, then obviously, it would be a pretty stupid idea to send them to them!
Also, someone to watch out for, is someone who likes the banter, this applies to both boys and girls, no matter you're gender, people like to gossip, if you're texting someone and sending them materials, there's a big chance they're with the friends, and they're showing off the fact you're willing to send these materials to them. ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY'RE DRINKING, OR OUT WITH FRIENDS.
Best time to send photos is when they're on their own at home, and just a little lonely ;).
5) Have fun with it!
Speaks for itself really!
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If you do decide to take explicit materials of yourselves, for any purpose this is my advice to you!
1) Keep your face out of the photos
Especially if you're planning on sending photos/videos etc to a boyfriend/girlfriend that you wouldn't want anyone to see. Too many times people send out photo's to other people of their ex partners as some kind of petty revenge, which leads to extreme embarrassment and hurt to the ex-partner. At least if you keep your face out of the material, you can deny it being you!
2) Have an unrecognisable background to the material!
This is something a lot of people don't consider, if you don't want people to recognise you, it doesn't matter if you cut your face out of the photo, if your background is recognisable (Eg; if your bedroom walls, bed pillows etc are obvious in the photos) again it will link to you, and again you wouldn't be able to deny it being you in the material!
3) Only take materials that you're comfortable doing
I know people who take materials for money, and one thing they always get are people who are wanting things they're not comfortable with doing. If this is the case then just don't do it. Forget about the pressure, because if you don't want to do it, you're only going to feel shit about yourself for doing it after. And that isn't worth it!
This is also if you're just sending materials for fun, make sure it stays fun!
4) Send photos to people you know you can trust!
If you are sending photos out for fun, make sure you know you can trust the person. (OK, fair enough our judgement in this isn't always right) But if you're sending materials to someone who has a history of sending peoples photos etc to other people, then obviously, it would be a pretty stupid idea to send them to them!
Also, someone to watch out for, is someone who likes the banter, this applies to both boys and girls, no matter you're gender, people like to gossip, if you're texting someone and sending them materials, there's a big chance they're with the friends, and they're showing off the fact you're willing to send these materials to them. ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY'RE DRINKING, OR OUT WITH FRIENDS.
Best time to send photos is when they're on their own at home, and just a little lonely ;).
5) Have fun with it!
Speaks for itself really!
Follow me on facebook and twitter! (Links above!)
Email me: Shaneyxcakes@gmail.com
And if you have anything to say, you can always comment below!
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