If i snap my fingers... (take two :D)

So a little over a week ago I posted about how guys talk to women, and if you remember I spoke about a website I joined and the response I got from it. I promised you all that I'd try it the other way around and see the response I got from the ladies.

Well. I signed up as a lovely 23 year old called Ben, and my profile picture, like many other guys on that site, was a nice little picture of a penis. But the first thing I noticed after joining up with this website was that to be able to actually do anything like read messages etc, I had to pay to join.

So why was it free to join this website for women and not for men? I assume it's because there are more men that are inclined to join such sites, so to try and get more women to it, they offer the use of the site to them for free. But anyway moving on...

The response 'Ben' got from the women who were interested in him, was to be expected, it was a lot less forward, more subtle, and more pleasant than the messages 'Shaney' got such as 'I have a big thick cock, want it inside you?' and worse...
Ofcourse there were the few women who did respond with messages equivalent to the above, which actually got me wondering,

Guys, a question for you... How would you react to a message saying 'Hey, big boy. Want to play with my tight little pussy?'

I've asked a few guys opinion on this, and I got a mixed response, for the most part my friends didn't think too kindly of it, where as a couple said, 'Well if she's that up for it, and she was hot, then that's fine with me' But I thought it would be interesting to hear everyones general opinion on it :).

I never understood why people spoke like that to the opposite sex, personally I don't find it appealing at all, and judging by other peoples reactions, most people don't either, but there are the select few who do.
Each to their own, it's all a matter of opinion. But should we really be talking to each other like that?
It objectifies us to the other person, as nothing more than a sex toy. In a world where respect is lacking more and more, why should we degrade other people in this way?

If two people are happy talking to each other like that then fair play to them, but personally I feel like I a lot more respect for myself and other people than to talk like that with people. My personal opinion is that I find it disrespectful, but what I really want to know is, what do you think? :)

Let me know, by commenting below, or getting touch via Facebook, or twiiter (linked above) or email me at Shaneyxcakes@gmail.com