If i snap my fingers will you jump into my bed?

Probably not mate, but thanks for the offer.

Everyone always says how much easier it is for girls to pull than guys, and to be honest it is, but guys do you really make it any easier on yourself with the way you go about it?
During the past week, i signed up to a website that was aimed at people who were just looking for some random fun, and yes i expected to see a lot of sleaze on there, and trust me i wasn't disappointed!

More than 70% of the males that contacted my profile had their profile picture of their penis. Smooth guys. A lot of the messages i received were just about their fantasies and what they wanted to do to me, and offering me all expenses paid trips to them.... just for sex? Are you that convinced we're going to take you on? Or do you really need to pay us? One guy even offered to pay me to get naked on cam... seriously?!
I'm not saying all guys are like that, and I’m not saying all girls are not like that, but some of the lines that came out of that website was appalling, and to be quite frank, if you're using lines like that to pick us girls up, then no wonder it's so hard for you to pull.

As i said, i received very explicit messages from complete strangers, without sending a hello first, did you really expect me to reply to that? As slimy as it is being on one of those websites, and as un-meaningful as one night with someone who you meet in a club is, it's always nice to show a little respect first, even if both parties know what it is, a night that isn't going to mean anything. It's always nice to be treated like an actual human being, rather than a cock cave. Excuse the term, but that's really how you make it seem.

Come on guys, we all like our bit of fun just as much as you, but there's really no need to treat us like we're nothing. I know some of us girls can be exactly the same, and I’ll be doing a follow up blog, after I’ve signed up to the same website, as a guy to see how the women behave in the situation. But how far do you really expect to get with us when the first thing that comes out of your mouth is utter sleaze?
On a slightly more positive note, i have been speaking to a few people on there, who I’ve just been having rather nice conversations with, just talking about each other and getting to know them. So not every guy is like what i described above, but that was only the very small minority.
I understand that for that particular website that's exactly what i should have expected, and i did. But it's not just like that there, going out in town, guys have treated me and my friends in the exact same way, sleazy lines and showing off and it really doesn't work. We just laugh at you.

A little conversation goes a long way.


I want to know what you guys think, comment or contact me on facebook/twitter (links posted above) or email (shaneyxcakes@gmail.com) and share any thoughts or stories. I'll be doing a follow up on how women behave in about a weeks time. Thanks for reading :).