At many points in our lives we do feel a bit of jealousy towards the people around them, and sometimes that jealousy can go a little bitter. But why? Why can we not always have a little bit of positive jealousy?
It always depends on the person that we're jealous of, if that person is close to us, say a close friend, or just someone that we get on really really well, but don't see class them as one of our closer friends. With someone like that it's a lot easier to feel happy for them.
But if it's someone we don't get along with, or a friend who things are a little uneasy with at that moment, for some reason, we find it very very easy to become bitter towards them for it. Whether it's they have something that we want, or that they're achieving something you're working really hard on, or even if it just seems like they have an easier life/get everything that they want.
Petty jealousy is a big cause for arguments, even if it's not what the arguments about. Either we find something small to argue/bitch about and deep down we're actually letting our emotions from this jealousy out.
It's just something I wonder, why are we so bitter to the people we're that jealous of?
And why do we find it so hard to admit that we're even jealous of them?
What do you think, share via commenting, facebook or twitter :)
Sorry it's only a short one today guys, it's just something for you to think about, while I munch on my christmas dinner with my flatmates before we all go back home :).
i think normally its too hard for us to get over the fact that they have the thing you want but also it depends on what the reason your jealous is. is it cause some one has a top you want or because you ex is with some one els thers different degrees but its how you handle it that really matters do you get mad or do you go out nd use it as fule to do what you need to do to get over it
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