Hi Rebbie-
I feel as if im going no where in life atm, i went to college, enjoyed it, made friends and passed, but now i don't know what to do, i just want to earn money and work.. and sometimes i feel so alone even though i know i have people around me..i don't know if i'm good enough for anyone.
Anon.
Hi Anon!
First of all, Congrats on getting through college! I know getting a job is really hard at the moment. Assuming you're on job seekers? Have you tried temping agencies? They're agencies that help people find temporary work, while their employers are on temporary leave for things such as maternity leave/sickness leave. To find some in your local area Google 'Temping agencies - then wherever you live' and sign up, it's free to do so.
A couple of my flatmates found work via these over the summer. It's a great way to earn some money until you find yourself a permanent job!
Have you also considered Volunteering in a charity shop or something? I know it's not paid work, but I've done a little and it definitely keeps your spirits up, and gives you something to do so you don't feel like you're not doing anything with your life.
You shouldn't feel so hard on yourself. Of course you're good enough for people, as you said you have people around you, just surround yourself with those people and just think about how much they mean to you. It surprisingly instantly puts things into a much better perspective.
Everyone feels alone at times, even when we have everyone around. It's usually just a phase that passes, the best cure is going out and doing something fun with your friends, bowling, or even going out to get a slice of pizza.
Surround yourself with the people who make you the happiest, it won't last forever, i promise :).
Anyone else want some free advice on anything? Email me at Shaneyxcakes@gmail.com
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