We hear all the time about people acting crazy in their relationships, Girl's kicking off at their boyfriends for hanging around with another girl and vice versa, and the way the stories get told, you do get the impression that girl/boy is absolutely bat-shit crazy! It isn't always the case, we do forget what runs through the other person's mind.
Walking home with one of my best friends last night, she was telling me stories of stuff that had happened before in her relationship and the things she'd done. Sometime's she didn't understand why she kicked off the way she did... But to me it was kind of fairly obvious....
One of the great things about relationships is that you get to know a person so well you can predict their reactions to anything, and you can work out how far you can push a person before they snap at you. Some people in their relationships aren't phased at all by their partners hanging around with people of the opposite sex, but sometimes even for those people there are limits to how much they can't be phased by things.
So, boyfriends and girlfriends...
- One thing that is certain is, if you try and hide that you're hanging out with someone of the opposite sex, and then your partner finds out, they're rightfully going to flip off about it.
Whether there is something happening between you guys or not, if you are texting your partner and just wondering what you're up to. For gods-sake, just tell them you're hanging around with someone. Don't bother trying to be shady about it, people aren't stupid, partners tend to know when you're trying to hide something, because they know you just that well.
- Don't treat other people better than your partner. I've seen a fair few arguments in relationships over very small things, such as buying drinks, giving lifts, and just their general behaviour. Which from an outsiders point of view does actually look like the one picking the fight is some kind of lunatic, but the fact is; If you're going to do a nice thing for another guy/girl say, drop them off somewhere, but for whatever reason you always tell your partner to basically get stuffed, or to walk, then obviously when your partner finds out you're not saying that to other people, they're going to be a little hurt and wonder, why the fuck you're treating this other person like that, when you don't treat them like that.
Little things can cause big arguments, and make people look absolutely mental, when in reality, they aren't actually that crazy... when you think about it, it's kind of stupid right? I could list a million other things that cause the same amount of problems, but you'd all get bored reading it! Just think, whenever you hear stories like this that are over silly things, don't be quick to assume anything of anyone. Something will more than likely have pushed them into feeling that way... they probably aren't some crazy bitch. =)
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