I asked on twitter and facebook, judging from a photo I posted, what the topic of my next blog was... It didn't scream the answer no, and someone even asked if I was pregnant! (I'm not, by the way everyone haha). But one thing I would wish on everyone is that they are comfortable with the person they are, inside and out.
It's a lot easier to be comfortable with yourself on the inside, but most people who have low self esteem are self conscious by how they are physically. One thing I would love is for everyone to be able to look in the mirror and be happy with what they see, or if not happy, at least not sad! Because no one on this planet doesn't look good in my opinion, yeah we all walk around listing the things that look 'horrible' on our bodies, but at the end of the day, what is it really doing apart from making you feel bad?
We all have things we would change about ourselves, even the people who you think are the most beautiful people in the world will look at themselves and be like, I wish that was a little different.
At the end of the day... WHO CARES? The only people who would look at you and judge you on your physical 'imperfections' are the people who aren't worth your time in the slightest!
I have a couple of friends who are currently working on the things they don't like, exercise, healthy eating, and are getting excited and are really happy with the progress they're making. They've turned something they used to see negatively into a positive thing, and making themselves happier. Not that I think any of them were any less than beautiful anyway. But the fact is, even though they weren't happy, they now look at themselves and see how healthy they are, and the progress they're making, and that makes them happy.
I just hate seeing people obsess with their imperfections, exercise and eat healthier for your health, not to make yourself look any different to what you look like.
Who cares if you have a tummy, big nose, funny looking ears, only one eye... If you were to look in the mirror now, and even if you did only have one eye, look into it and see how beautiful it is, because the people that love you are the ones that will see that. Not think about the one that's missing.
I've gone from being one of the skinniest to my friends and over the past few years I'm now one of the biggest, I'm a size 12 and that many stone, but on a girl who's only 5"3, it doesn't sit so right and I don't always feel great about it... but my friends never once said a thing to me, never once commented on it, because they didn't see it. And if I can be happy with my life and my friends and just doing what I want to do in life. Who the fuck cares if I have a tummy that people mistake for a baby! haha. And everyone else should be saying the same thing, because I think you're all amazing and beautiful :)
Tuesday, 31 July 2012
Tuesday, 12 June 2012
Advice Blog: Torn between two.
I've chosen this email from a fair few advice questions I've received over the past couple of weeks, as it's a topic that I've found myself in plenty of times, and that I've helped friends with too!
Unfortunately she didn't give me much to go on, but it's a common thing for people to go through!
'I've recently been having feelings for a couple of a guys, both of which like me and have been involved with, one is a really great friend and the other, well typically I didn't know liked me until my other fling started, which is gutting because I had a massive crush on him for ages before all this... To be honest, I don't even know what I really want advice on... I just have no idea what I'm doing!'
- Crushes are weird things aren't they! From the sounds of it, the way you said one of these guys were a 'friend' means it's either swinging both ways... He is more of a friend than a potential boyfriend, or this guy can actually be a really good match for you! Because he can play both roles! But there's nothing wrong with liking more than one person at once, seeing them both at the same time is a little dodgy, as if they or other people find out, you could be in for a lot of crap heading your way! :/.
But you need to work out what you actually want, by the sounds of it, you're not in the right place for an actual relationship, just a little bit of fun until your hormones wear down a little bit! haha.
If you know one of these guys really REALLY likes you, maybe you should cool it off until you decide what you want, otherwise he may find out about the other and then you'll lose their respect and friendship.
It's always a difficult one, especially seen as you probably won't want to lose either of them, but, how long can you play this game for? I'm not judging though... I've been there myself and it can be quite tough. Just be honest about how you feel to them, or give yourself some space from them both and see who you miss the most?
What about the guy you had a crush on before, is it just a physical thing, or do you know them well enough to be able to see them as something more? You're right with it being typical timing though, it seems to happen way too often!
You just have to figure out who you want. Though do you want either of them that bad if you're willing to continue a relationship with the other? I can't tell you how you feel, I wish i could! Maybe you should talk to each of them and find out how they're feeling, and what they think is going on between them and you. But, right now I don't think you're in any position to make a decision yet, but you are in a position to potentially hurt two guys...
The best thing to do is talk to each of them and try and find out how you feel and tell them sweetheart. Though saying that, I never have the balls to tell anyone how I feel. It's scary right? Just focus on you for now and when you realise who you like more/what you want. Just be honest and do what makes you happy.
Hope it helps chick! and good luck!! :D
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Unfortunately she didn't give me much to go on, but it's a common thing for people to go through!
'I've recently been having feelings for a couple of a guys, both of which like me and have been involved with, one is a really great friend and the other, well typically I didn't know liked me until my other fling started, which is gutting because I had a massive crush on him for ages before all this... To be honest, I don't even know what I really want advice on... I just have no idea what I'm doing!'
- Crushes are weird things aren't they! From the sounds of it, the way you said one of these guys were a 'friend' means it's either swinging both ways... He is more of a friend than a potential boyfriend, or this guy can actually be a really good match for you! Because he can play both roles! But there's nothing wrong with liking more than one person at once, seeing them both at the same time is a little dodgy, as if they or other people find out, you could be in for a lot of crap heading your way! :/.
But you need to work out what you actually want, by the sounds of it, you're not in the right place for an actual relationship, just a little bit of fun until your hormones wear down a little bit! haha.
If you know one of these guys really REALLY likes you, maybe you should cool it off until you decide what you want, otherwise he may find out about the other and then you'll lose their respect and friendship.
It's always a difficult one, especially seen as you probably won't want to lose either of them, but, how long can you play this game for? I'm not judging though... I've been there myself and it can be quite tough. Just be honest about how you feel to them, or give yourself some space from them both and see who you miss the most?
What about the guy you had a crush on before, is it just a physical thing, or do you know them well enough to be able to see them as something more? You're right with it being typical timing though, it seems to happen way too often!
You just have to figure out who you want. Though do you want either of them that bad if you're willing to continue a relationship with the other? I can't tell you how you feel, I wish i could! Maybe you should talk to each of them and find out how they're feeling, and what they think is going on between them and you. But, right now I don't think you're in any position to make a decision yet, but you are in a position to potentially hurt two guys...
The best thing to do is talk to each of them and try and find out how you feel and tell them sweetheart. Though saying that, I never have the balls to tell anyone how I feel. It's scary right? Just focus on you for now and when you realise who you like more/what you want. Just be honest and do what makes you happy.
Hope it helps chick! and good luck!! :D
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Monday, 11 June 2012
Fighting
After a couple of days of space, and time to myself. I rekindled my number one principle. To try the hardest you can to get what you want. Because if you really want it, would you be ever happy? A lot of life's regrets are from not fighting for what we want.
I've made a pretty awesome decision in the last coupe of days, and im going to fight for the shit I want :D
New advice blog coming tomorrow! And now uni is over more regular blogs are coming your way this summer. Especially my travelling diaries, as im travelling round the UK for the summer :)
Sunday, 27 May 2012
Admitting mistakes
What else to come back into my blog with than with a little telling off! =D... I joke of course. Though there is something that has been in debate with me and a couple of friends recently and that's admitting mistakes.
We do all sometimes lie and run away from the things that we have done, I've done it plenty in the past, and sometimes I still do and it is only because we're a little scared of the consequences and the telling off that we'll get!
If you can get away with shit, you can get away with shit... right?
It's not always the case though is it? We have flawed natures and personalities which means every now and again we're going to do shit that's going to hurt the people we care about and end up damaging relationships and friendships.
I know that sometimes the things we've done wrong can be forever hidden, but that's not always the case. I do believe that we should always own up to shitting on people, but I do also believe that if you're going to cause someone unnecessary hurt, then you should probably keep your mouth shut. Because I don't agree with hurting people when you can get away with not doing.
For example.
Me and my ex just broke up, and as a lot of you know, that was a long distance thing. But say if one of us had cheated, and spent the night with someone else. If that then caused the decision for us to break up with the other one? Would it be all that bad to also throw in the fact you'd slept with someone else?
Personally, I wouldn't want to know. But there is the conflict of what is the right thing to do. Because the right thing would be to be honest right?
Or would the right thing to do, be to go the 'cowards way out' and not cause that extra bit of hurt?
(BTW, that was all hypothetical! As far as I know... neither of us cheated...*suspicious stare* :p).
What do you guys think? Is it ok for us to sometimes break moral rules and have secrets to prevent causing more damage? Or do you think it's just a cowards way out?
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We do all sometimes lie and run away from the things that we have done, I've done it plenty in the past, and sometimes I still do and it is only because we're a little scared of the consequences and the telling off that we'll get!
If you can get away with shit, you can get away with shit... right?
It's not always the case though is it? We have flawed natures and personalities which means every now and again we're going to do shit that's going to hurt the people we care about and end up damaging relationships and friendships.
I know that sometimes the things we've done wrong can be forever hidden, but that's not always the case. I do believe that we should always own up to shitting on people, but I do also believe that if you're going to cause someone unnecessary hurt, then you should probably keep your mouth shut. Because I don't agree with hurting people when you can get away with not doing.
For example.
Me and my ex just broke up, and as a lot of you know, that was a long distance thing. But say if one of us had cheated, and spent the night with someone else. If that then caused the decision for us to break up with the other one? Would it be all that bad to also throw in the fact you'd slept with someone else?
Personally, I wouldn't want to know. But there is the conflict of what is the right thing to do. Because the right thing would be to be honest right?
Or would the right thing to do, be to go the 'cowards way out' and not cause that extra bit of hurt?
(BTW, that was all hypothetical! As far as I know... neither of us cheated...*suspicious stare* :p).
What do you guys think? Is it ok for us to sometimes break moral rules and have secrets to prevent causing more damage? Or do you think it's just a cowards way out?
Comment on
Facebook: Rebbie-Shane
Twitter: @Rebbie_Shane
Email: RebbieShaneOfficial@gmail.com (Yes, i got a new email, and it makes sound like a big shot, even though I'm not!)
Remember; I'm still doing advice through my email. Even though I've been away for a while, I'm still getting loads of messages from you guys :D.
AND; (Permitting I get my last assignment finished!) MY FIRST VIDEO WILL BE DONE TOMORROW :D
Get excited folks!
Thursday, 26 April 2012
Gossip and Drama..
Hey guys.
Sorry I hadn't blogged in oh so long... too many things have been happening it's unreal and crazy!
But something I've been thinking about is the amount of shit that goes down in our lives, we go around saying 'we hate drama' and 'why does shit always seem to kick off' but deep down we do live for it a little bit, you've got to admit...
We all like to gossip and know little things about each other. Curiosity is a natural thing, but we hate it when all the hate is coming in our direction...
But something that is gripping people all around the world is reality TV, a lot of people do like to watch shows like 'the only way is Essex' and what have you... (A lot of people who hate it, actually haven't watched it :P) I never have, and granted there are people on there that have seen it and just don't like it. But a lot of us get into the lives of others and the drama and gossip...
I'm a real sucker for the 'Real Housewives' franchise. I love the shows... But then again, I do like to gossip and be opinionated on stuff at times...
We all have a natural curiosity for things, and when it comes to the people around you, it interests you, because you know that person, and you're all like 'oooooh.' And reality shows do so well because without realising, you do begin to feel like you know these people that are on your TV screens, because they are sharing private moments in their lives, and you see them in their homes, from doing outrageous things, to just everyday things that we can relate to. You get an insight into them and you start to relate to them and form your own opinions and stuff.
But when it comes to our lives, and the people around us, a lot of people get VERY gossipy and opinionated about stuff that has absolutely nothing to do with them. And so begins the whole talking about people behind their backs and what have you.
RULE NUMBER ONE: don't say anything about anyone that you wouldn't say to their faces. Because people gossip and some people have no problem with confronting people about what they've apparently said. So be careful guys with what you say, and if you do over motor your mouth, slagging someone off etc. Apologise. Too many friendships break from over powered motormouths...
To be fair, no one should be slagging off someone about some idol gossip anyway, unless you know the full story. But we do tend to make some kind of opinion based on what we hear, it's natural. But voicing it is a different matter, and people really need to be careful about what they are saying.
Your mouth has the ability to get you into good places, and it also earns itself a good smack when it doesn't know when to stop!
Be careful with what you say guys... if it doesn't involve you, try not to involve yourself with your opinions.. makes life a hell of a lot easier...
Sorry I hadn't blogged in oh so long... too many things have been happening it's unreal and crazy!
But something I've been thinking about is the amount of shit that goes down in our lives, we go around saying 'we hate drama' and 'why does shit always seem to kick off' but deep down we do live for it a little bit, you've got to admit...
We all like to gossip and know little things about each other. Curiosity is a natural thing, but we hate it when all the hate is coming in our direction...
But something that is gripping people all around the world is reality TV, a lot of people do like to watch shows like 'the only way is Essex' and what have you... (A lot of people who hate it, actually haven't watched it :P) I never have, and granted there are people on there that have seen it and just don't like it. But a lot of us get into the lives of others and the drama and gossip...
I'm a real sucker for the 'Real Housewives' franchise. I love the shows... But then again, I do like to gossip and be opinionated on stuff at times...
We all have a natural curiosity for things, and when it comes to the people around you, it interests you, because you know that person, and you're all like 'oooooh.' And reality shows do so well because without realising, you do begin to feel like you know these people that are on your TV screens, because they are sharing private moments in their lives, and you see them in their homes, from doing outrageous things, to just everyday things that we can relate to. You get an insight into them and you start to relate to them and form your own opinions and stuff.
But when it comes to our lives, and the people around us, a lot of people get VERY gossipy and opinionated about stuff that has absolutely nothing to do with them. And so begins the whole talking about people behind their backs and what have you.
RULE NUMBER ONE: don't say anything about anyone that you wouldn't say to their faces. Because people gossip and some people have no problem with confronting people about what they've apparently said. So be careful guys with what you say, and if you do over motor your mouth, slagging someone off etc. Apologise. Too many friendships break from over powered motormouths...
To be fair, no one should be slagging off someone about some idol gossip anyway, unless you know the full story. But we do tend to make some kind of opinion based on what we hear, it's natural. But voicing it is a different matter, and people really need to be careful about what they are saying.
Your mouth has the ability to get you into good places, and it also earns itself a good smack when it doesn't know when to stop!
Be careful with what you say guys... if it doesn't involve you, try not to involve yourself with your opinions.. makes life a hell of a lot easier...
Tuesday, 20 March 2012
Decisions.
The thing is, we all make decisions. Right, wrong, indifferent, stupid, crazy, smart etc, and each decision we make takes us on a different path.
Some we keep secret, and some we push out there. We judge people by the decisions they make, but who are we to judge them?
Everyone makes decisions that some people won't agree with. But this is our life. If you're going to make big decisions you have to;
-Know the negative as well as the positive consequences.
-Accept that not everyone will agree with them
Some we keep secret, and some we push out there. We judge people by the decisions they make, but who are we to judge them?
Everyone makes decisions that some people won't agree with. But this is our life. If you're going to make big decisions you have to;
-Know the negative as well as the positive consequences.
-Accept that not everyone will agree with them
-Those who don't will sometimes have a strong opinion and therefore a large mouth!
-Accept every negative response/consequence as well as the positive.
You'd think these are pretty simple and everyone follows them? But they don't and some people genuinely aren't prepared for the negativity that comes with some decisions. One of the most common I've seen recently is one of the most stupid things. Offensive jokes/quotes/sayings... or even jokes/quotes/saying in general really, whether you say them online, through text, to peoples faces etc, a lot of people can't stand the fact that some people will turn round and not agree, be offended by what people say... and it starts an argument. For example, when a celebrity dies, facebook/twitter etc goes mad with jokes, puns etc. The person saying is only having a bit of a laugh, but it always goes to a person/people who don't like it, say something, and that person who told the joke or what have you goes ape shit at this person for being offended.
We all know that situation right?
If you're going to say something taboo/offensive or anything along that train or even on another train, in life everyone disagrees, accept it, don't kick off and be a dick. The words 'I didn't mean for that to offend anyone' or even the words 'Sorry' aren't hard to say/type. It's not hard to accept that someone's feelings were tugged at, just as it's not hard to accept that people find what you say, or what other people say humorous.
Another different example...
We all go out and have a laugh with our friends, have amazing nights out, some of us even drink a little too much and some people even like to take the occasional person home with them.
Everyone who knows me knows I don't have a problem with single people having one night stands etc. You're not hurting anyone or doing anything wrong. But sometimes this does cause a negative image with some people if this is a regular thing, or if that person you take home is a wanker and doesn't tell you they're with someone/married/engaged/a monk/nun/elephant/tree what have you, you have to be honest, who has time for a background check on a night out?
I'm not saying anyone should put up with abuse like that, not in the slightest, but people talk, people bitch, you have to learn to take the bullshit and put it in a place where it can't hurt you. I see it's not the best example to use, but as much as people have to accept you aren't doing anything intentionally bad, you also have to take bad responses, and throw them over your shoulder in the best way possible. It's just a different view point to a very common situation.
You know, you make decisions, sometimes we get negative reactions etc. But that's just life. Sometime's we're totally not prepared for them and they catch us off guard. Sometimes we genuinely believe we're not doing anything wrong and that's fine. Not one person on this earth hasn't made a bad/wrong decision. We're imperfect, but I believe that's what makes us perfect people.
Some people make bad decisions, knowing they're bad, but won't accept the bad consequences. People like that... they're just cowards. The strongest people take situations as they are, good or bad.
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-Accept every negative response/consequence as well as the positive.
You'd think these are pretty simple and everyone follows them? But they don't and some people genuinely aren't prepared for the negativity that comes with some decisions. One of the most common I've seen recently is one of the most stupid things. Offensive jokes/quotes/sayings... or even jokes/quotes/saying in general really, whether you say them online, through text, to peoples faces etc, a lot of people can't stand the fact that some people will turn round and not agree, be offended by what people say... and it starts an argument. For example, when a celebrity dies, facebook/twitter etc goes mad with jokes, puns etc. The person saying is only having a bit of a laugh, but it always goes to a person/people who don't like it, say something, and that person who told the joke or what have you goes ape shit at this person for being offended.
We all know that situation right?
If you're going to say something taboo/offensive or anything along that train or even on another train, in life everyone disagrees, accept it, don't kick off and be a dick. The words 'I didn't mean for that to offend anyone' or even the words 'Sorry' aren't hard to say/type. It's not hard to accept that someone's feelings were tugged at, just as it's not hard to accept that people find what you say, or what other people say humorous.
Another different example...
We all go out and have a laugh with our friends, have amazing nights out, some of us even drink a little too much and some people even like to take the occasional person home with them.
Everyone who knows me knows I don't have a problem with single people having one night stands etc. You're not hurting anyone or doing anything wrong. But sometimes this does cause a negative image with some people if this is a regular thing, or if that person you take home is a wanker and doesn't tell you they're with someone/married/engaged/a monk/nun/elephant/tree what have you, you have to be honest, who has time for a background check on a night out?
I'm not saying anyone should put up with abuse like that, not in the slightest, but people talk, people bitch, you have to learn to take the bullshit and put it in a place where it can't hurt you. I see it's not the best example to use, but as much as people have to accept you aren't doing anything intentionally bad, you also have to take bad responses, and throw them over your shoulder in the best way possible. It's just a different view point to a very common situation.
You know, you make decisions, sometimes we get negative reactions etc. But that's just life. Sometime's we're totally not prepared for them and they catch us off guard. Sometimes we genuinely believe we're not doing anything wrong and that's fine. Not one person on this earth hasn't made a bad/wrong decision. We're imperfect, but I believe that's what makes us perfect people.
Some people make bad decisions, knowing they're bad, but won't accept the bad consequences. People like that... they're just cowards. The strongest people take situations as they are, good or bad.
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Sunday, 11 March 2012
I cheated and I don't know what to do
It's been a while since I did one of my advice blogs (Shame on all my friends who are reading this thinking I cheated :P)
But I got an email from a girl who had cheated on her boyfriend, and was a little confused about what it meant etc. Anyway, if you have any more advice to give her then comment below, Follow on Facebook or Twitter :)
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'Hi Rebbie,
I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now, and when we first got together I really liked him, and I still do... I just feel the spark has gone out of the relationship. I'm starting to wonder if I want to be with him anymore. I know he loves me and he is the best boyfriend I've ever had, but something isn't there...
A couple of weeks ago I went out with a few of my friends, and ended up taking someone else home. To be honest I don't exactly regret it, but It's made me wonder even more about whether I want to be with my boyfriend or not :/. If he found out what happened he'd be so upset :(. What should I do?'
Hey there random person with no name :P haha.
First of all, a lot of people do tend to feel that way after being in a relationship for a fair amount of time, as things tend to get more permanent and things are starting to seem like they're going to work out for the long run, it's natural for us to start thinking about 'Is this what I want to focus my life and time on?'
What are your feelings for the guy you cheated on your boyfriend with? Is he someone you know and like? Or was he just a one night stranger? If he was just a one night thing then I would suggest just trying to push it to the back of your mind and take some time out for yourself to figure out what you want from your relationship, because that's the important bit in that scenario.
But if it's someone you do like, you need to figure out if it's something that's likely to happen again, because if it is, it's going to be even more unfair on your partner to be sticking around in this relationship if you're playing away. If you feel like you should tell your boyfriend what happened, then tell him, but if it's going to be a 'more trouble than it's worth' situation, noone would blame you for just keeping quiet and forgetting the whole thing. Although if there's a chance someone saw you, don't be surprised if the gossip spreads, maybe you should also think about if it's worth getting the truth out there yourself before the gossip train does!
You never know, that night could of been the night someone realised how much they do want their relationship. Unfortunately I don't think this has happened to you :(. I think you probably do care about your boyfriend a hell of a lot, but you're not in a place to be in a long term or serious relationship. Either because that person isn't the one, or you just don't like being in a committed relationship. Maybe you need some time to yourself away from the pressures of relationships to see what you truly want :).
Hope this helps!
But I got an email from a girl who had cheated on her boyfriend, and was a little confused about what it meant etc. Anyway, if you have any more advice to give her then comment below, Follow on Facebook or Twitter :)
Or if you need any advice, (Either to be answered via my blog or privately, email me at Shaneyxcakes@gmail.com)
'Hi Rebbie,
I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now, and when we first got together I really liked him, and I still do... I just feel the spark has gone out of the relationship. I'm starting to wonder if I want to be with him anymore. I know he loves me and he is the best boyfriend I've ever had, but something isn't there...
A couple of weeks ago I went out with a few of my friends, and ended up taking someone else home. To be honest I don't exactly regret it, but It's made me wonder even more about whether I want to be with my boyfriend or not :/. If he found out what happened he'd be so upset :(. What should I do?'
Hey there random person with no name :P haha.
First of all, a lot of people do tend to feel that way after being in a relationship for a fair amount of time, as things tend to get more permanent and things are starting to seem like they're going to work out for the long run, it's natural for us to start thinking about 'Is this what I want to focus my life and time on?'
What are your feelings for the guy you cheated on your boyfriend with? Is he someone you know and like? Or was he just a one night stranger? If he was just a one night thing then I would suggest just trying to push it to the back of your mind and take some time out for yourself to figure out what you want from your relationship, because that's the important bit in that scenario.
But if it's someone you do like, you need to figure out if it's something that's likely to happen again, because if it is, it's going to be even more unfair on your partner to be sticking around in this relationship if you're playing away. If you feel like you should tell your boyfriend what happened, then tell him, but if it's going to be a 'more trouble than it's worth' situation, noone would blame you for just keeping quiet and forgetting the whole thing. Although if there's a chance someone saw you, don't be surprised if the gossip spreads, maybe you should also think about if it's worth getting the truth out there yourself before the gossip train does!
You never know, that night could of been the night someone realised how much they do want their relationship. Unfortunately I don't think this has happened to you :(. I think you probably do care about your boyfriend a hell of a lot, but you're not in a place to be in a long term or serious relationship. Either because that person isn't the one, or you just don't like being in a committed relationship. Maybe you need some time to yourself away from the pressures of relationships to see what you truly want :).
Hope this helps!
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