I asked on twitter and facebook, judging from a photo I posted, what the topic of my next blog was... It didn't scream the answer no, and someone even asked if I was pregnant! (I'm not, by the way everyone haha). But one thing I would wish on everyone is that they are comfortable with the person they are, inside and out.
It's a lot easier to be comfortable with yourself on the inside, but most people who have low self esteem are self conscious by how they are physically. One thing I would love is for everyone to be able to look in the mirror and be happy with what they see, or if not happy, at least not sad! Because no one on this planet doesn't look good in my opinion, yeah we all walk around listing the things that look 'horrible' on our bodies, but at the end of the day, what is it really doing apart from making you feel bad?
We all have things we would change about ourselves, even the people who you think are the most beautiful people in the world will look at themselves and be like, I wish that was a little different.
At the end of the day... WHO CARES? The only people who would look at you and judge you on your physical 'imperfections' are the people who aren't worth your time in the slightest!
I have a couple of friends who are currently working on the things they don't like, exercise, healthy eating, and are getting excited and are really happy with the progress they're making. They've turned something they used to see negatively into a positive thing, and making themselves happier. Not that I think any of them were any less than beautiful anyway. But the fact is, even though they weren't happy, they now look at themselves and see how healthy they are, and the progress they're making, and that makes them happy.
I just hate seeing people obsess with their imperfections, exercise and eat healthier for your health, not to make yourself look any different to what you look like.
Who cares if you have a tummy, big nose, funny looking ears, only one eye... If you were to look in the mirror now, and even if you did only have one eye, look into it and see how beautiful it is, because the people that love you are the ones that will see that. Not think about the one that's missing.
I've gone from being one of the skinniest to my friends and over the past few years I'm now one of the biggest, I'm a size 12 and that many stone, but on a girl who's only 5"3, it doesn't sit so right and I don't always feel great about it... but my friends never once said a thing to me, never once commented on it, because they didn't see it. And if I can be happy with my life and my friends and just doing what I want to do in life. Who the fuck cares if I have a tummy that people mistake for a baby! haha. And everyone else should be saying the same thing, because I think you're all amazing and beautiful :)
