What else to come back into my blog with than with a little telling off! =D... I joke of course. Though there is something that has been in debate with me and a couple of friends recently and that's admitting mistakes.
We do all sometimes lie and run away from the things that we have done, I've done it plenty in the past, and sometimes I still do and it is only because we're a little scared of the consequences and the telling off that we'll get!
If you can get away with shit, you can get away with shit... right?
It's not always the case though is it? We have flawed natures and personalities which means every now and again we're going to do shit that's going to hurt the people we care about and end up damaging relationships and friendships.
I know that sometimes the things we've done wrong can be forever hidden, but that's not always the case. I do believe that we should always own up to shitting on people, but I do also believe that if you're going to cause someone unnecessary hurt, then you should probably keep your mouth shut. Because I don't agree with hurting people when you can get away with not doing.
For example.
Me and my ex just broke up, and as a lot of you know, that was a long distance thing. But say if one of us had cheated, and spent the night with someone else. If that then caused the decision for us to break up with the other one? Would it be all that bad to also throw in the fact you'd slept with someone else?
Personally, I wouldn't want to know. But there is the conflict of what is the right thing to do. Because the right thing would be to be honest right?
Or would the right thing to do, be to go the 'cowards way out' and not cause that extra bit of hurt?
(BTW, that was all hypothetical! As far as I know... neither of us cheated...*suspicious stare* :p).
What do you guys think? Is it ok for us to sometimes break moral rules and have secrets to prevent causing more damage? Or do you think it's just a cowards way out?
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