Hey guys.
Sorry I hadn't blogged in oh so long... too many things have been happening it's unreal and crazy!
But something I've been thinking about is the amount of shit that goes down in our lives, we go around saying 'we hate drama' and 'why does shit always seem to kick off' but deep down we do live for it a little bit, you've got to admit...
We all like to gossip and know little things about each other. Curiosity is a natural thing, but we hate it when all the hate is coming in our direction...
But something that is gripping people all around the world is reality TV, a lot of people do like to watch shows like 'the only way is Essex' and what have you... (A lot of people who hate it, actually haven't watched it :P) I never have, and granted there are people on there that have seen it and just don't like it. But a lot of us get into the lives of others and the drama and gossip...
I'm a real sucker for the 'Real Housewives' franchise. I love the shows... But then again, I do like to gossip and be opinionated on stuff at times...
We all have a natural curiosity for things, and when it comes to the people around you, it interests you, because you know that person, and you're all like 'oooooh.' And reality shows do so well because without realising, you do begin to feel like you know these people that are on your TV screens, because they are sharing private moments in their lives, and you see them in their homes, from doing outrageous things, to just everyday things that we can relate to. You get an insight into them and you start to relate to them and form your own opinions and stuff.
But when it comes to our lives, and the people around us, a lot of people get VERY gossipy and opinionated about stuff that has absolutely nothing to do with them. And so begins the whole talking about people behind their backs and what have you.
RULE NUMBER ONE: don't say anything about anyone that you wouldn't say to their faces. Because people gossip and some people have no problem with confronting people about what they've apparently said. So be careful guys with what you say, and if you do over motor your mouth, slagging someone off etc. Apologise. Too many friendships break from over powered motormouths...
To be fair, no one should be slagging off someone about some idol gossip anyway, unless you know the full story. But we do tend to make some kind of opinion based on what we hear, it's natural. But voicing it is a different matter, and people really need to be careful about what they are saying.
Your mouth has the ability to get you into good places, and it also earns itself a good smack when it doesn't know when to stop!
Be careful with what you say guys... if it doesn't involve you, try not to involve yourself with your opinions.. makes life a hell of a lot easier...
